G – glossary

gag: Any device or object designed to be placed in the mouth, most commonly to prevent a person from speaking or making loud sounds, sometimes to hold the mouth open.

Gates of Hell: Usually made of leather or rubber. Male chastity device for enclosing or restricting penis and testicles.

genitals: The sexual organs of either sex.

genitorture: Torture of the genitals, yay.

gimp: (1) A body suit, usually with face covering, possibly genital openings, made of plastic, PVC, leather or combination, usually along with some combination of humiliation, predicament or dehumanization fetishes, (2) people with a limp or other physical disabilities, sometimes used as an insult (which can thus be used for kink humiliation) or (3) a type of plastic lacing used for floggers (or for crafting bracelets outside of kink.)

giving him/her her/his leash: 1. (gay usage) give them enough rope to hang himself. 2. give him his leash to walk freely around a party, if he stays good. – (both old fashioned meanings) 3. to had a sub a collar, and have the sub hand back the leash, to show acceptance and submission. 4. in an existent relationship, handing back the leash can be a way of returning the submission and ending that level of relationship.

glory hole: A hole cut in a partition through which the penis is inserted in order to receive oral sex or masturbation from an anonymous person on the other side. Usually found in men’s restroom stalls in a “certain” kind of club.

golden shower: Being urinated on by another person.

good pain (see limits, bad pain): Generally defines a level of pain (physical or psychological) which the recipient can bear without causing long-term physical damage or emotional harm. See “bad pain” for possible consequences.

Gorean: Related to the rituals and practices created within the world of Gor in the fantasy/adventure novels by John Norman. Gorean culture is based on stereotypical gender roles, a rigid hierarchy, and an emphasis on ritual. Some common Gorean terms are defined in this Glossary, some of which are used only in online environments: kajir, kajiri, kajirae, kajirus, kajiri, kolar, kef.

grandmother rule, grandmothering: (Generally applies to “vanilla spaces”, such as public areas at a hotel where a BDSM event is being held, or heading to a play party at someone’s house.) Your appearance and conduct should be such that, if you happened to bump into your grandmother, she wouldn’t be shocked (unless she knew what you’re carrying in that duffel bag!)

greek: Anal sex.

gunplay: Using actual or simulated firearms in a scene.

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